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		<title>The beautiful blur of work and play</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 19 Aug 2010 10:55:41 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Geralyn</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>“Let’s see what happens if I do this,” my son said as he played with his twin brother in the sand. We were at the ocean, and the boys were constructing a track for a tennis ball they’d found the night before. We first spied the tennis ball bobbing in the waves as high tide [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://www.empoweredbyplay.org/wp-content/uploads/2010/08/ball-track.jpg"><img class="alignright size-medium wp-image-1015" title="ball track" src="http://www.empoweredbyplay.org/wp-content/uploads/2010/08/ball-track-225x300.jpg" alt="" width="225" height="300" /></a>“Let’s see what happens if I do this,” my son said as he played with his twin brother in the sand. We were at the ocean, and the boys were constructing a track for a tennis ball they’d found the night before. We first spied the tennis ball bobbing in the waves as high tide crashed upon the shore. We ran along the boardwalk watching as the ball got tossed and turned in the waves. The boys were cheering for the tennis ball &#8211; in a way only six-year-old boys might &#8211; hoping that the ball would find a safe place to land on the shore. Their prayers answered,  the tennis ball finally came to rest in a nest of rocks.  Hooray! The boys “rescued” the ball from one adventure &#8211; only to create a new adventure for it on land.</p>
<p>Carved in sand on a slight incline, they made an initial track and then tested and re-tested their creation, perfecting  it as they went. When the ball only made it halfway down the track, one of the boys suggested, “Push it harder this time.” When the ball jumped the track, one declared, “Don&#8217;t worry! I know how to fix it!” I listened and watched the boys as they played.  They didn&#8217;t need me; they had plenty of their own ideas. Eventually, though, they came running over to ask me to join in their hypothesizing. “Mom, the ball smashed through the sand wall. So what do you think will happen if we make a cement wall with sand, rocks and water?”</p>
<p>Hypothesizing, testing out ideas, making observations and re-testing &#8211; all in the name of good fun &#8211; keeps children engaged. I always know their minds are engaged when I hear children say, “Let’s see what happens if I do this…” It’s right up there with hearing them say, “I have an idea!”</p>
<p><a href="http://www.empoweredbyplay.org/wp-content/uploads/2010/08/rock-collection.jpg"><img class="aligncenter size-large wp-image-1016" title="rock collection" src="http://www.empoweredbyplay.org/wp-content/uploads/2010/08/rock-collection-1024x425.jpg" alt="" width="538" height="223" /></a></p>
<p>When they weren’t busy making the track in the sand, or riding their boogie boards in the waves, they were busy collecting rocks. “These are not usual rocks,” they explained. The boys had names for the categories of rocks they found:  “Clear rocks; flat-bottom rocks; multi-rocks” and even some uniquely shaped rocks, such as “The Heart Rock” and “The Maine Rock.”  I heard one boy sigh to himself, “This is a lot of work,” as he added his latest findings to their lines of rocks in the sand. Then he turned to me and professed, “Aren’t these some supremely cool rocks?”</p>
<p>Eventually, we had to go, and they decided to count the rocks.  The total: 112 in all, plus two shells and one piece of beach glass. “Mom, can we bring our collection home?” they asked. “Yes,” I replied.  “I suppose so.” “And can we have some egg cartons so we can organize them?”  “Of course!”</p>
<p>Collecting, sorting, categorizing, and admiring objects &#8211; especially those from nature &#8211; is another way to capture the minds of young children. The best thing about these beach endeavors is that the boys themselves decided what they were going to do, and then did it. For hours they were engaged and entertained in a beautiful blur of work and play. Were they learning? Absolutely.  Were they laughing and living? You bet.  Sometimes I wish life was always just a day at the beach.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.empoweredbyplay.org/wp-content/uploads/2010/08/boogie-board.jpg"><img class="alignleft size-medium wp-image-1017" title="boogie board" src="http://www.empoweredbyplay.org/wp-content/uploads/2010/08/boogie-board-300x225.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="225" /></a></p>
<p>Check out related posts:</p>
<p><a title="A day at the beach" href="http://www.empoweredbyplay.org/2009/08/a-day-at-the-beach-playing-with-the-wind-and-other-wonderful-problems/">A day at the beach &#8211; playing with the wind and other wonderful problems</a> and</p>
<p><a title="I have an idea!" href="http://www.empoweredbyplay.org/2009/07/i-have-an-idea-2/">&#8220;I have and idea!&#8221;</a></p>
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		<title>Fun for All Ages</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 06 Aug 2010 12:32:27 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Geralyn</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>&#8220;Fun for all ages&#8221; is a wonderful concept. When thinking about imaginative play, and life in general, you know you have a hit when a wide range of ages can be equally engaged. Last week, our family held the second annual &#8220;Cousin&#8217;s Camp&#8221; for our upcoming generation. We had 15 campers ranging in age from [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>&#8220;Fun for all ages&#8221; is a wonderful concept. When thinking about imaginative play, and life in general, you know you have<a href="http://www.empoweredbyplay.org/wp-content/uploads/2010/08/0702.jpg"><img class="alignright size-medium wp-image-997" title="070" src="http://www.empoweredbyplay.org/wp-content/uploads/2010/08/0702-300x225.jpg" alt="" width="283" height="211" /></a> a hit when a wide range of ages can be equally engaged. Last week, our family held the second annual &#8220;Cousin&#8217;s Camp&#8221; for our upcoming generation. We had 15 campers ranging in age from 4 &#8211; 13. Ahh, there lies the challenge &#8211; how do you keep such a wide range of kids engaged for hours (and days?!) at a time?</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">For one thing, you have have a flexible structure for them to work within. Setting the parameters, and giving choices within them, goes a long way in keeping everyone actively engaged. Second, you find materials and experiences that are open-ended and usually quite simple. Think natural materials such as water, sand and wooden blocks; and art materials such as  finger paints, paper, crayons, markers and clay. Nothing fancy or gimmicky here,  and definitely no batteries required.  Of course, what a 4 year-old and 13 year-old chose to do with blocks, sand, clay or finger paints will vary. Their methods, attention span and ability to coordinate their play with others will look very different, but isn&#8217;t that the beauty of open-ended materials? In these instances, the child is in <a href="http://www.empoweredbyplay.org/wp-content/uploads/2010/08/water-and-sand.jpg"><img class="size-medium wp-image-980  alignleft" title="water and sand" src="http://www.empoweredbyplay.org/wp-content/uploads/2010/08/water-and-sand-300x177.jpg" alt="" width="233" height="137" /></a>charge of deciding the <em>how</em> and the <em>what</em>; the grown ups are there just to provide the materials, the time and the space.</p>
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<p>&#8220;Quiet Time&#8221; in the afternoons gave us all a chance to relax, take a  deep breath <a href="http://www.empoweredbyplay.org/wp-content/uploads/2010/08/New-Moon-Girls-at-Cousins-Camp.jpg"><img class="alignright size-medium wp-image-1008" title="New Moon Girls at Cousin's Camp" src="http://www.empoweredbyplay.org/wp-content/uploads/2010/08/New-Moon-Girls-at-Cousins-Camp-300x173.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="173" /></a>and entertain ourselves individually. Within the &#8220;Quiet  Time&#8221; framework older campers read novels and wrote in their journals;  younger campers read or looked at books and drew pictures; and our  youngest campers took their afternoon nap. And singing was something we did daily together &#8211; with lots of songs that  have become family favorites &#8211; including call and response songs which  everyone (including the youngest non-readers) can enjoy. Our oldest  camper even taught the rest of us a new song &#8211; now a favorite &#8211; which we  will add to our growing songbook.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.empoweredbyplay.org/wp-content/uploads/2010/08/057.jpg"><img class="alignleft size-medium wp-image-985" title="057" src="http://www.empoweredbyplay.org/wp-content/uploads/2010/08/057-300x225.jpg" alt="" width="257" height="192" /></a>But there is one more crucial ingredient &#8211; interesting adults.  This year, we had a rotating list of aunts and uncle who came and shared their interests, time and talents with the kids. One of my brothers, a former art teacher, made paper with the campers. Another brother is a talented musician, and he joined us with his guitar for some of our singing sessions. My sister came one day and shared her talents in the kitchen to help our campers make lunch and snack for that day.  Launching rockets, starting a campfire, pitching a tent, telling a funny story, performing a skit&#8230;so many interesting grown ups spending time with the campers&#8230;sharing laughter and love and making memories.</p>
<p>So, how do you keep kids engaged? Open-ended and simple materials. Flexible structure. Quality time spent with interesting  and caring adults.  These make for a fantastic summer camp experience. And you know what&#8230;pretty great for school, too. I remember times in my second and third grade classroom at <a title="Mission Hill School" href="http://www.missionhillschool.org/mhs/Welcome_.html">Mission Hill School</a> &#8211; when things were feeling stressful and unproductive, and our insightful principal <a title="Deborah Meier" href="http://www.deborahmeier.com/">Deb Meier</a> would say to me, &#8220;What about making the classroom feel more like summer camp?&#8221;  That question would help me tweak my routine, materials and attitude in a way that could get us back on track &#8211; and making it fun for all ages.</p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><a href="../wp-content/uploads/2010/08/campers-building.jpg"><img class="aligncenter" title="campers building" src="../wp-content/uploads/2010/08/campers-building-235x300.jpg" alt="" width="151" height="192" /></a></p>
<p>See a related post: <a title="KEVA planks - creating fun for everyone" href="http://www.empoweredbyplay.org/2009/07/keva-planks-creating-fun-for-everyone-2/">KEVA planks &#8211; creating fun for everyone</a></p>
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		<title>A Great Way to Play</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 15 Jul 2010 10:53:17 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Geralyn</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>I wasn&#8217;t surprised yesterday to read in Newsweek that creativity in the United States is on the decline (The Creativity Crisis).   Innovation, flexible thinking and problem solving have all been disappearing from our lives, so it is no wonder our creativity is down. It was heartening then to hear a fantastic story on WBUR about [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I wasn&#8217;t surprised yesterday to read in Newsweek that creativity in the United States is on the decline (<a title="The Creativity Crisis" href="http://www.newsweek.com/2010/07/10/the-creativity-crisis.html">The Creativity Crisis</a>).   Innovation, flexible thinking and problem solving have all been disappearing from our lives, so it is no wonder our creativity is down. It was heartening then to hear a fantastic story on WBUR about something GOOD that is happening:  a new kind of &#8220;natural playground&#8221; which has just opened in Boston (<a title="A New Kind of Playground" href="http://www.wbur.org/2010/07/13/kids-parks">A New Kind of Playground</a>). This new playground features stepping stones, sand, water and other natural materials, including blocks made from trees that were on the site of the playground. The teachers have noticed a new kind of play happening with their students, where children are interacting with these materials in creative ways that just don&#8217;t happen on typically equipped playgrounds.</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">Natural playgrounds are a solution that speaks to problem-solving deficit disorder, a term coined by <a title="Diane Levin" href="http://www.dianeelevin.com/">Diane Levin</a> in 2003 and has written about (such as in <a title="So Sexy, So Soon" href="http://www.sosexysosoon.com/"><em>So Sexy, So Soon</em></a>); and also for nature-deficit disorder, which Richard Louv writes about in <em><a title="Last Child in the Woods" href="http://richardlouv.com/last-child-woods">Last Child in the Woods</a></em>. It seems a little sad, perhaps, that we&#8217;ve gotten to this place where we actually need designed spaces for kids to play with natural materials.  But there you have it: this is just what we need. Otherwise, for too many of our children, it just isn&#8217;t happening. Natural playgrounds remind me of the song &#8220;<em>Water, Sand, Blocks and Clay</em>&#8221; by Brady Rymer which I used to sing with my 5, 6 and 7 year olds,</p>
<p style="text-align: center;">&#8220;I will make a mountain tall and I will build a castle wall,</p>
<p style="text-align: center;">I will make a forest green and I will make a flowing stream,</p>
<p style="text-align: center;">&#8217;cause I got everything I want and everything I&#8217;ll ever need,</p>
<p style="text-align: center;">and I will play all day with my water, sand, blocks and clay&#8230;&#8221;</p>
<p>A great song to sing and a great way to play.<a href="http://www.empoweredbyplay.org/wp-content/uploads/2010/07/we-found-a-bone.jpg"><img class="alignright size-medium wp-image-952" title="we found a bone" src="http://www.empoweredbyplay.org/wp-content/uploads/2010/07/we-found-a-bone-248x300.jpg" alt="" width="248" height="300" /></a></p>
<p><em>For a related story about nature play on playgrounds, see my <a title="Defending dirt and Playing for Keeps" href="http://www.empoweredbyplay.org/2010/07/defending-dirt-and-playing-for-keeps/">previous post about the new book Playing for Keeps:Life and Learning on a Public School Playground by Deborah Meier, Beth Taylor and Brenda Enge</a>l.</em></p>
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		<title>Defending dirt and Playing for Keeps</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 06 Jul 2010 11:39:02 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Geralyn</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>The other day my kids were playing in the mud with their cousins. We were replanting some lilac shoots from a very special family bush. While I was thinking about the significance of this 1oo+ year-old family heirloom, the kids were busy stomping in the mud and muck. I didn&#8217;t get upset with them &#8211; [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The other day my kids were playing in the mud with their cousins. We were replanting some lilac shoots from a very special family bush. While I was thinking about the significance of this 1oo+ year-old family heirloom, the kids were busy stomping in the mud and muck. I didn&#8217;t get upset with them &#8211; in fact I encouraged them. &#8220;Go ahead!&#8221; I said.  &#8220;Get dirty. I just read about a new study that says playing outside in the dirt may actually make you smarter!&#8221; The kids giggled at this and started asking each other, &#8220;Are you smarter now?&#8221; and answering,&#8221;Yes! E equals m c squared!&#8221;  I laughed, with them, but I am quite happy to have this new research in my arsenal in the fight to keep play in our children&#8217;s lives. So, the next time your little ones come in the house all grubby from making mud pies or digging to China, rest easy knowing that playing in the dirt has been shown to lower depression, lesson anxiety and now&#8230;make you smarter!</p>
<p>You see, back in May, Science Daily reported:<span style="color: #333399;"><em> &#8220;Exposure to  specific bacteria in the environment, already believed to have  antidepressant qualities, could increase learning behavior, according to  research presented at the 110th General Meeting of the American Society  for Microbiology in San Diego.&#8221;</em></span> <a title="Science Daily" href="http://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/2010/05/100524143416.htm">Read the whole story here</a>.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.empoweredbyplay.org/wp-content/uploads/2010/07/We-need-more-stciks-and-grass1.jpg"><img class="alignright size-medium wp-image-923" title="We need more stciks and grass" src="http://www.empoweredbyplay.org/wp-content/uploads/2010/07/We-need-more-stciks-and-grass1-269x300.jpg" alt="" width="269" height="300" /></a>The researches found the effects were temporary, which means repeated exposure is good. Their research helps the growing  movement of outdoor classrooms, school yard gardens and bringing kids (and all of us) back outside. Personally, I know that when I am stressed, time outdoors always helps. I&#8217;ve known babies who would stop crying and fussing when they were brought outdoors.  I can relate because I am the same way. As a teacher, I always knew that time outside in nature was good for kids &#8211; especially as television, video games and the internet were keeping them more and more inside. I wrote more about nature and education in this article,<a title="We Need More Sticks and Grass! We Need More Beauty!" href="http://www.communityplaythings.com/resources/articles/natureeducation/weneedmore.html"> &#8220;We Need More Sticks and Grass! We Need More Beauty!&#8221; </a>.</p>
<p>Now, having evidence that being outside in nature can actually increase learning behavior &#8211; this is the icing on the cake.<em><span style="color: #333399;"> &#8220;This research suggests that <em>M. vaccae</em> may play a role in  anxiety and learning in mammals,&#8221; says Matthews. &#8220;It is interesting to  speculate that creating learning environments in schools that include  time in the outdoors where <em>M. vaccae</em> is present may decrease  anxiety and improve the ability to learn new tasks.&#8221;</span></em></p>
<p><a href="http://www.empoweredbyplay.org/wp-content/uploads/2010/07/0807750956.gif"><img class="alignleft size-full wp-image-920" title="0807750956" src="http://www.empoweredbyplay.org/wp-content/uploads/2010/07/0807750956.gif" alt="" width="116" height="170" /></a><span style="color: #333399;"><span style="color: #000000;">Looking for more evidence that time spent outdoors is good for our children? Here&#8217;s more.  There&#8217;s a terrific new book just</span></span><span style="color: #333399;"><span style="color: #000000;"> published by Teachers College Press. It is called  <em>Playing for Keeps: Life and Learning on a Public School Playground</em>, by Deborah Meier, Brenda S. Engel and Beth Taylor. The book comes at just the right time, when parents and teachers are looking for ways to convince principals and policy makers that recess is a necessary and valuable part of the school day. The book is written about the early years at the Mission Hill School in Boston, a school that I am proud to have helped start and then teach at for eleven years. The authors are all incredibly talented teachers and mentors, who helped me learn how to closely observe children and the deep importance of active learning. It is from these women that I learned much of what I know about being a good teacher. </span></span></p>
<p><span style="color: #333399;"><span style="color: #000000;">From the introduction, <span style="color: #000080;">&#8220;We invite readers to appreciate the life of the imagination on the playground, to see the energy children bring to exploring their social and physical surrounds, and to share with us the children&#8217;s delight in active learning.&#8221;</span><br />
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<p><span style="color: #333399;"><span style="color: #000000;">If your children are outside &#8211; playing, living, laughing, learning and getting dirty &#8211; these two new bodies of evidence help confirm what you already know. If your children are inside more than you like, and you are advocating for recess, struggling to bring  a garden to your school yard or working to bring more outdoor recreation spaces into your community, now you have two new powerful weapons in your arsenal. Excellent.<br />
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		<title>A Real Toy Story</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 21 Jun 2010 12:40:22 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Geralyn</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>The more I think about it, the more I am convinced that the best toys  are not toys at all. Fuzzy blankets and empty boxes rule when you are inside;  wild flowers, sticks and rocks for when you are outside.  A blanket becomes a cape or a tent and a box becomes just [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The more I think about it, the more I am convinced that the best toys  are not toys at all. Fuzzy blankets and empty boxes rule when you are inside;  wild flowers, sticks and rocks <a href="http://www.empoweredbyplay.org/wp-content/uploads/2010/06/superhero.jpg"><img class="alignright size-medium wp-image-911" title="superhero" src="http://www.empoweredbyplay.org/wp-content/uploads/2010/06/superhero-225x300.jpg" alt="" width="225" height="300" /></a>for when you are outside.  A blanket becomes a cape or a tent and a box becomes just about anything. This is the stuff  that makes for rich imaginative play.  It is the season of garage sales  where I live, and I&#8217;ve been checking them out lately. Holy cow, there  is a whole lot of plastic junk out there. At least folks who have a  garage sale (or who shop there) are trying to reuse these  toys and extend their use a bit still&#8230; yikes!</p>
<p>I&#8217;ve also been reading the <em>Story of Stuff: How Our Obsession With Stuff is Trashing the Planet, Our Communities, and Our Health &#8211; and a Vision For Change</em> by Annie Leonard. It is a  real wake-up call. I try to be environmentally conscious &#8211; but by  reading this book I&#8217;ve realized there is so much more we as a country  can &#8211; and should &#8211; be doing. Leonard reveals, <em><span style="color: #333399;">&#8220;We have a problem with Stuff. With just 5 percent of the world’s  population, we’re consuming 30 percent of the world’s resources and  creating 30 percent of the world’s waste. If everyone consumed at U.S.  rates, we would need three to five planets!&#8221;</span></em><strong> </strong> My only hope is that this horrifying oil disaster will be the rude awakening our country needs.</p>
<p>(It&#8217;s not a spill,  by the way. A spill is what my son does with his glass of orange juice.  It&#8217;s a pain to clean up the spill, but we can do it in a few minutes.  What is happening in the Gulf of Mexico is a man-made disaster.  Definitely not a spill.)</p>
<p><a href="http://www.empoweredbyplay.org/wp-content/uploads/2010/06/Toy-Story-3.jpg"><img class="alignnone size-full wp-image-895" title="Toy Story 3" src="http://www.empoweredbyplay.org/wp-content/uploads/2010/06/Toy-Story-3.jpg" alt="" width="181" height="180" /></a><a href="http://www.empoweredbyplay.org/wp-content/uploads/2010/06/Toy-story-3.2.jpg"><img class="alignnone size-full wp-image-897" title="Toy story 3.2" src="http://www.empoweredbyplay.org/wp-content/uploads/2010/06/Toy-story-3.2.jpg" alt="" width="220" height="220" /></a><a href="http://www.empoweredbyplay.org/wp-content/uploads/2010/06/Toy-Story-3.3.jpg"><img class="alignnone size-full wp-image-898" title="Toy Story 3.3" src="http://www.empoweredbyplay.org/wp-content/uploads/2010/06/Toy-Story-3.3.jpg" alt="" width="123" height="123" /></a></p>
<p>Do the world a favor and forgo all the thousands of Toy Story 3 plastic junk, and all the other aggressively marketed single-purpose toys, and opt for good old fashioned imagination-inducing fabric scraps, empty containers of any type, art supplies, pebbles and the like. Its not easy to break the habit of consumption &#8211; believe me, the LEGO situation in my own house is admittedly out of control. We are working on it, though, and my husband has finally agreed that there is such a thing as &#8220;too many LEGOs&#8221;. Check out this fantastic article <a title="Children, Commercialism and Environmental Sustainability" href="http://www.commercialfreechildhood.org/news/2010/03/kdiscommercialismsustainability.html">Children, Commercialism, and Environmental Sustainability</a> by Tim Kasser, Tom Crompton, and Susan Linn.</p>
<p>Related posts:</p>
<p><a title="Reduce, Reuse and Re-imagine" href="http://www.empoweredbyplay.org/2010/04/reduce-reuse-re-imagine/">Reduce, Reuse and Re-imagine!</a></p>
<p><a title="Empowered by Play's Toy of the Year Award: Nature!" href="http://www.empoweredbyplay.org/2009/11/empowered-by-plays-toy-of-the-year-award-nature/">Empowered by Play&#8217;s Toy of the Year Award: Nature!</a></p>
<p><a title="When Did Sesame Street Become $esame $treet?" href="http://www.empoweredbyplay.org/2009/11/when-did-sesame-street-become-esame-treet/">When Did Sesame Street Become $esame $treet?</a></p>
<p><a title="Way Too Many Toys" href="http://www.empoweredbyplay.org/2009/10/way-too-many-toys/">Way Too Many Toys</a></p>
<p><a title="Announcing TRUCE's Infant-Toddler Toys, Play &amp; Media Action Guide!" href="http://www.empoweredbyplay.org/2009/11/announcing-truces-infant-toddler-play-toys-media-action-guide/">Announcing TRUCE&#8217;s Infant-Toddler Toys, Play &amp;  Media Action Guide!</a></p>
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		<title>Strawberries, snakes and swings</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 01 Jun 2010 11:29:03 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Geralyn</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>It feels like summer is already here. This weekend our family enjoyed many moments outdoors &#8211; for me this is the best antidote to screen-time. At least two snakes were spotted &#8211; slithering among rocks at our house and at friends&#8217;. Awesome. The first yummy strawberries ripened in our little garden, and the boys delighted [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://www.empoweredbyplay.org/wp-content/uploads/2010/05/strawberry-0031.jpg"><img class="alignright size-medium wp-image-846" title="strawberry 003" src="http://www.empoweredbyplay.org/wp-content/uploads/2010/05/strawberry-0031-300x225.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="225" /></a>It feels like summer is already here. This weekend our family enjoyed many moments outdoors &#8211; for me this is the best antidote to screen-time. At least two snakes were spotted &#8211; slithering among rocks at our house and at friends&#8217;. Awesome. The first yummy strawberries ripened in our little garden, and the boys delighted in picking every berry that was ready to eat. Absolutely, purely delicious fun. One of my sons, <a title="Why Empowered by Play?" href="http://www.empoweredbyplay.org/2009/06/why-empowered-by-play-2/">who learned to swing last June</a>, taught his brother how to get himself going on the swing in our backyard. Excellent! And the two boys swung together on a lovely bench swing hanging from a tree and overlooking a pond. We were visiting friends and toasting marshmallows for s&#8217;mores &#8211; again, delicious and fun.</p>
<p>This blog began in May 0f 2009, and since then, I have been on the computer more than I ever have before. It often strikes me as ironic, that in my efforts to encourage imaginative play, and to help families and children reduce screen-time, I have increased my own screen-time. Yuck. I am trying to do more connecting and sharing of ideas and information through Twitter and Facebook &#8211; and doing so has actually helped me cut down on my time online. I was worried about adding them to the Empowered by Play networking plan, in that they might increase my time spent in front of the screen, but thankfully the opposite has proven to be true.</p>
<p>Nature. That&#8217;s where you&#8217;ll find me, whenever possible. Right in my own yard, usually &#8211; where the bird feeders, breezes, flowers and general green-ness help me relax. This weekend in the backyard, I even spied two spirited fox kits playing and wrestling while their mom watched nearby. Very cool. It reminded me of <a href="http://www.empoweredbyplay.org/2010/05/protecting-play-three-great-new-resources/">Bill Crain&#8217;s piece about the need for play being innate</a>. Clearly, for these young fox kits, it is. And for my kids, too. In fact, my son just came up and asked me to play &#8211; so I&#8217;ll be signing off.</p>
<p>Here&#8217;s to playing outside, finding snakes, swinging in the breeze and picking ripe strawberries!</p>
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		<title>Reduce, Reuse, Re-imagine!*</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 23 Apr 2010 12:10:41 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Geralyn</dc:creator>
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<p>With Earth day events happening  this week and this weekend, it is the perfect time to plug open-ended,  imaginative play. For children, the simplest toys are the best toys.  Usually, this translates into being good for the environment as well.   With just a little imagination, empty yogurt containers become [...]]]></description>
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<p>With Earth day events happening  this week and this weekend, it is the perfect time to plug open-ended,  imaginative play. For children, the simplest toys are the best toys.  Usually, this translates into being good for the environment as well.   With just a little imagination, empty yogurt containers become musical  instruments, toilet paper rolls become binoculars and an empty cardboard  box becomes almost anything. Better still, nature provides an  incredible supply of props for play. When I was little, we raked leaves  in a way that created the floor plan for our imagined houses &#8211; with low  walls defining our own precious spaces. Each day, we could recreate and  improve on the previous day&#8217;s ideas. In the spring, blowing dandelion  flowers and curling their stems in water made for great fun. In these  instance, we didn&#8217;t use &#8220;toys&#8221; but improvised props from found objects.  No money spent, no batteries needed, no plastic for the landfill. For a  fact sheet on the commercialism of toys and play, check out this link to  <a title="The Commercialism of Toys and Play" href="http://www.commercialexploitation.org/factsheets/toysandplay.pdf">Campaign  for a Commercial-Free Childhood</a>.</p>
<p>Earlier this month, at the <a title="Consuming Kids Summit" href="http://www.commercialexploitation.org/events.htm">Consuming  Kids Summit</a> in Boston, I had the pleasure of meeting Annie Leonard,  who you may know from the Internet sensation, <a title="The Story of  Stuff" href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gLBE5QAYXp8">The Story of Stuff </a>. If you haven&#8217;t seen this powerful film, I urge you to check it  out on YouTube. You may want to watch it with your own children   (depending on how old they are) and begin a whole family conversation  about consumption and our planet.  She also has a book version with a  title that just about says it all &#8211; The Story of Stuff: How Our  Obsession with Stuff is Trashing the Planet, Our Communities,  and Our  Health &#8211; and a Vision for Change. (By the way, the United States is at  the forefront of this &#8211; trashing more than just our own country &#8211; check  out the film and see just what&#8217;s up!)</p>
<p>So, as we celebrate Earth Day (Earth Week? Earth Year? Earth  Lifetime?) and as you reduce, reuse and recycle, it is a great time to  also re-imagine.  What can you and your family do for fun without  purchasing products? I bet you can make a whole list!</p>
<p>*I have to give a shout out to a new acquaintance, Julia Chen of The  Playstore in Palo Alto, CA. I also met Julia at the Consuming Kids  Summit, and she came up with the little saying I used for the title  here. Thanks, Julia&#8230;I love it!</p>
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		<title>Snow Day Learning Packet?! Just let them play!</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 10 Feb 2010 19:58:02 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Geralyn</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>I am home today with my sons. There was a big snow storm in our area which has all the schools closed. We are enjoying a luscious snow day &#8211; complete with pancakes, pajamas till noon, LEGOs galore and more. Lots of fun, plus some household chores (cleaning the playroom!) are getting done. This afternoon, [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I am home today with my sons. There was a big snow storm in our area which has all the schools closed. We are enjoying a luscious snow day &#8211; complete with pancakes, pajamas till noon, LEGOs galore and more. Lots of fun, plus some household chores (cleaning the playroom!) are getting done. This afternoon, we will bundle up and explore the snow. Many others are enjoying snow days these days. Are you?</p>
<p>Well, yesterday I heard from a mom who lives in the mid-Atlantic region. They were hit with a big snow storm earlier this week. As she and her children were ready to enjoy their snow day, she received an email from her children&#8217;s school &#8211; a &#8220;Snow Day Learning Packet&#8221;!  Yikes!</p>
<p>As this mom writes: <em>It is a &#8220;Snow Day Learning Packet&#8221; with a list of suggested online activities for the kids, with a list of 30 -THIRTY!!!- recommended websites for the students to visit. As I read the email, I wanted to jump up and b</em><em>lock the computer screen to protect my kids from the school and yell back, &#8220;It&#8217;s a snow day! Leave my kids alone and let them play! Let them have a day or two of playing in the snow, sledding, making a snow fort, just finding out what it&#8217;s like to tromp around in the snow, having fun and making memories, without having to think about school.&#8221;</em><a href="http://www.empoweredbyplay.org/wp-content/uploads/2010/02/Snow-Day.jpg"><img class="alignright size-medium wp-image-501" title="Snow Day!" src="http://www.empoweredbyplay.org/wp-content/uploads/2010/02/Snow-Day-244x300.jpg" alt="" width="244" height="300" /></a></p>
<p>I agree wholeheartedly with this mom&#8217;s reaction to the school&#8217;s email &#8211; she wanted to protect her kids from the message sent.  For me the email is insulting, and implies that families can not come up with their own ideas for how to spend this unexpected free time. It is an encroachment on family life (even though it may be well-intentioned) and will make some parents second-guess the value of how they were planning on spending the day. Playing board games, baking muffins, tromping outside, reading a book, taking a nap &#8211; these are all worthwhile pursuits on a snow day! The fact that the school focused on websites, and getting the students to go online just adds to the insult of it all. Just say no to &#8220;Snow Day Learning Packets!&#8221; and say yes to child-directed and parent endorsed downtime.</p>
<p>Now, let me get back to my sons and our snugly snow day!</p>
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		<title>Time for kids to be kids</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 21 Dec 2009 10:25:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Geralyn Bywater McLaughlin M.Ed.</dc:creator>
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<p>On Friday I picked up my sons from school &#8211; it was the last day of school until January 4th &#8211; a nice, long break. As I greeted the school staff, and wished them well, we agreed the break was well deserved for everyone. &#8220;Time for the kids to be kids. They grow up too [...]]]></description>
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<p>On Friday I picked up my sons from school &#8211; it was the last day of school until January 4th &#8211; a nice, long break. As I greeted the school staff, and wished them well, we agreed the break was well deserved for everyone. &#8220;Time for the kids to be kids. They grow up too fast these days,&#8221; one staff member commented. I nodded in agreement, saying, &#8220;You are singing my song!&#8221;</p>
<div>Kids <em>are</em> growing up too quickly these days. Marketers have tapped into children&#8217;s natural desire to grow up and have exploited this innate desire &#8211; selling designer clothes and expensive electronic gadgets &#8211; convincing kids that owning these objects will make them feel cool and happy. This &#8220;age compression&#8221; leaves our children feeling unsettled, confused and usually not very happy. Check out these survey results about kids&#8217; Internet searches posted by <a href="http://onlinefamilyinfo.norton.com/articles/kidsearches_2009.php">OnlineFamily.Norton</a>:</div>
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<h2>Top Searches of 2009 – By Age Group</h2>
<ul>
<li>Youtube, Facebook, and Google comprise the top 3 search terms for kids.</li>
<li>Sex comes in at #4 for teens and tweens while porn comes in #4 for kids 7 and under.</li>
<li>Taylor Swift was the top searched for term among teens. For tweens and kids 7 and under, it was Michael Jackson.</li>
<li>Teens and tweens spend most of their search time online on music related subjects (34% and 27%).*</li>
<li>Kids under the age of seven spend most of their search time online on games (23%).*</li>
<li>Kids under the age of seven are conducting searches for P2P sites like Limewire and Mininova.</li>
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<th>Teen (13-18)</th>
<th>Tween (8-12)</th>
<th>7 &amp; Under</th>
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<td>1</td>
<td>Youtube</td>
<td>Youtube</td>
<td>Youtube</td>
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<td>2</td>
<td>Facebook</td>
<td>Google</td>
<td>Google</td>
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<td>3</td>
<td>Google</td>
<td>Facebook</td>
<td>Facebook</td>
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<td>4</td>
<td>Sex</td>
<td>Sex</td>
<td>Porn</td>
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<td>5</td>
<td>MySpace</td>
<td>Club Penguin</td>
<td>Club Penguin</td>
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<td>6</td>
<td>Porn</td>
<td>Youtube.com</td>
<td>Yahoo</td>
</tr>
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<td>7</td>
<td>Yahoo</td>
<td>You Tube</td>
<td>Webkinz</td>
</tr>
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<td>8</td>
<td>Youtube.com</td>
<td>Miniclip</td>
<td>You Tube</td>
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<td>9</td>
<td>eBay</td>
<td>Yahoo</td>
<td>Games</td>
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<td>10</td>
<td>Wikipedia</td>
<td>eBay</td>
<td>Miniclip</td>
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<td>11</td>
<td>Taylor Swift</td>
<td>Porn</td>
<td>Nick Jr</td>
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<td>12</td>
<td>You Tube</td>
<td>Michael Jackson</td>
<td>Youtube.com</td>
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<td>13</td>
<td>Party in the USA</td>
<td>Fred</td>
<td>Gmail</td>
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<td>14</td>
<td>Michael Jackson</td>
<td>Webkinz</td>
<td>Cartoon Network</td>
</tr>
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<td>15</td>
<td>Google.com</td>
<td>Wikipedia</td>
<td>Poptropica<br />
Michael Jackson</td>
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<td>16</td>
<td>Lady Gaga</td>
<td>Miley Cyrus</td>
<td>eBay</td>
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<td>17</td>
<td>Facebook Login</td>
<td>Gmail</td>
<td>Disney Channel</td>
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<td>18</td>
<td>Gmail</td>
<td>Party in the USA</td>
<td>Cbeebies</td>
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<td>19</td>
<td>Miley Cyrus</td>
<td>Games</td>
<td>Hotmail</td>
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<td>20</td>
<td>Facebook.com</td>
<td>Taylor Swift</td>
<td>Hannah Montana</td>
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<td>21</td>
<td>Justin Bieber</td>
<td>Addicting games</td>
<td>Lego</td>
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<td>22</td>
<td>Lil Wayne</td>
<td>Hotmail</td>
<td>Disney</td>
</tr>
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<td>23</td>
<td>Hotmail</td>
<td>Poptropica</td>
<td>Yahoo Mail</td>
</tr>
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<td>24</td>
<td>MySpace.com</td>
<td>MySpace</td>
<td>Facebook Login</td>
</tr>
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<td>25</td>
<td>New Moon</td>
<td>Hannah Montana</td>
<td>MySpace</td>
</tr>
</tbody>
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<div>Seeing this list drives home how difficult it has become for parents to keep a handle on what their children are seeing and doing. Did you catch that &#8220;Porn&#8221; is the number #4 search for kids seven and under? For me, there is no better time than right now to keep our kids offline and out of the virtual world. During this vacation, I am hoping that kids everywhere will have time to play creatively, build, make and do -both indoors and outdoors, and unplugged as much as possible.</div>
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		<title>Doing More with Less this Holiday Season</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 27 Nov 2009 17:01:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Geralyn</dc:creator>
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As we enter the gift-giving season, the stress of what to buy and how to pay for it begins to mount. Take heart&#8230; Here are ideas to delight and inspire your family. The good news is, these smart choices for your family are not budget-busters.

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<div>As we enter the gift-giving season, the stress of what to buy and how to pay for it begins to mount. Take heart&#8230; <strong>Here are ideas to delight and inspire your family</strong>. The good news is, these smart choices for your family are not budget-busters.</div>
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<div>Above all, keep in mind that the most valuable gift you can give your family is time spent together playing, laughing and talking. <strong>Instead of focusing on your “presents,” find ways to focus on your “presence.”</strong> Make a gift-certificate for a low-cost family outing &#8211; such as sledding, and an after-sledding hot-chocolate party at home. Sharing the experience and then talking together will create memories that can last forever. If the weather is too bad to go outside, check out your local library for free passes to area museums. (Or, if you live in warmer climates, spend a family day at the beach or have a picnic in a park.)</div>
<div>If you have a big extended family (or group of friends) that usually swap gifts, opt for a “Cookie and Book Swap” party instead. Last December our family hosted our cousins, who brought <strong>gently used books and homemade cookies to share</strong>. Grown-ups and kids had a great time. All the children went home with a few “new” books for their own libraries, and the books left over were donated to a worthy cause. And, with each family contributing a batch of cookies, <strong>the party did not cost much money at all</strong>.</div>
<div>When you do decide to shop for gifts, remember this rule: <strong>The best toys for kids are the simplest ones.</strong> Research supports this, and many experts agree. Wooden blocks are a great example. This classic toy will become a different toy every time your child plays with them. Children will learn about cause and effect, balance, stability and more. They can play alone or with friends and siblings to develop problem-solving skills. If blocks are a new investment in your home, take a few minutes to get down on the floor and build yourself. You’ll be glad you did! Your kids will see you having fun and will cherish the time building with you. The blocks will “grow” with your child, and never go out of fashion.</div>
<div><strong>Consider going &#8220;unplugged&#8221;. </strong>Toys that need electricity or batteries are initially seductive, but quickly become boring. Discarded and forgotten, they clutter up closets and corners. Opt for toys that encourage your kids to act, do, create and imagine. A basket of dress-up clothes (gather some from your own grown-up closet) with scarves and fabric can lead to hours of inspired play. (A wonderful bonus: research has shown role-playing is an excellent tool for helping kids to develop self-regulating skills which help in school and life.) <strong>Steering clear of electronic gadgets is good for your wallet, good for the earth, and great for your kids.</strong></div>
<div><strong>Look for gender-neutral toys</strong> that appeal to a wide range of kids and grown-ups. For example, the tumbling tower game <em>Jenga</em> is fun for all ages to play together, especially in the original form. However, the <em>Jenga Pink Girl Talk</em> will have limited appeal. Keep gender-neutral in mind when shopping for balls, scooters and other equipment that can be shared with friends, passed on or resold when your kids grow out of them.</div>
<div><strong>Be wary of branded toys</strong> that lead to consumerism and turn great toys into commercials for TV shows or movies. For example, a kit from the LEGO 3-in-1 Creator series is more flexible than a specific movie or TV inspired Lego kit &#8211; which is limited in what it can be. Basic LEGO bricks, wheels and other generic pieces encourage kids to design their own inventions. And a simple doll or puppet that is not a specific character, can say, do and become whatever your child imagines.</div>
<div><strong>Finally, marketers will try to trick you into buying electronic gadgets that promise to “make your kids smart“. Be smart yourself! </strong>Don’t fall for this marketing ploy. A better option is buying (or borrowing) books to read with your child. Whatever your child’s age (this includes babies and toddlers), time spent reading together is invaluable. If you are not a strong reader yourself, or need a break, borrow audio books from the library and listen together. <strong>Reading as a family</strong> will help support the healthy academic and social/emotional development of your child for now and for their future.<strong> What better gift is there?</strong></div>
<div><strong>For more information</strong> and free downloadable toy and media guides, see <a href="http://www.truceteachers.org/">www.truceteachers.org</a>.</div>
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